Yes, a new post
Mood:  flirty

Its been over a month since my last post, and its a good news bad news thing for anybody that continues to read this.
Good news: this is a new post. Bad news: it just might be my last.

Bad news first. For various reason, my need or desire to keep this going have started to deplete. People keep stopping by to read, but Im finding it difficult to actually write stuff without going into detail - something that was suggested I not do. So until I can figure out a solution to that, my posting will be few. If you have suggestions, let me know.

Now to the new post.

Im no pimp/stud/womanizer by any means, but Ive had plenty of "encounters" with the female species, but never - not even once - have I ever achieved the Holy Grail of sexual achievement... the simultanious orgasm. That is, until a couple days ago.
I am happy to say that it is everything people say it is. So for those of you that havent experienced this yet, go out and find the first person of the opposite sex you can and do it til it happens. Its worth it.

Til next time... maybe...

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She likes it, she likes it
Mood:  flirty

Hola mi amigos --

Its been a busy couple weeks and I havent really had much time to post anything on any of my blogs, but I thought Id at least update yall on the... umm... taste test.
Yeah, I know, that wasnt the best description, but I was having a hard time thinking of something clever. So live with it.
Im happy - very happy - to report that my girlie has now gotten to the point where she tolerates my "mess" in her mouth. No, thats not exactly true, truth is, she really likes it. In fact, she gets disappointed when it doesnt end up there.
My how things have changed. A year and a half ago she was the shy innocent girl who hadnt tried much - and now were practically doing it in public all the time. And she went from this girl who didnt know anything about oral sex, to this girl whos the best Ive ever had. And now, finally, from a girl who couldnt stop gagging when things got messy, to a girl who just cant get enough.

Im a very lucky boy.

Til next time...

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Yummy?
Mood:  flirty

I feel a bit... bad.

I dont know, maybe its confusion I feel. Its something, and its not exactly a good feeling cuz I dont know how to handle the situation.
See, my girlie isnt too keen on... "the mess" that a guy - me - will normally make during physical contact. Its not that she doesnt like touching it, its more like she doesnt like tasting it.
So the solution would be to not force her to do so, right? Wrong. Ive told her that its not something that I think she "needs" to do, but she doesnt listen. Shes a stubborn girl.
I dont know if she thinks that I really want her to swallow - I admit, the thought is a very nice one - or if she wants to try it cuz SHE wants to try it, but either way, shes attempted to on a few occasions.
The clear stuff she can handle, and she actually seems to like, but the white stuff, shes just not there yet.

Which brings me to yesterday.....

We came home yesterday and she decided that before she left she wanted to please me. I say "me" but the truth is, she likes doing it almost as much as I like having it done.
Anywho, she was doing it and eventually it got to the point where I was going to make a mess and I told her to stop, but she wouldnt. I tried to pull away, but she wouldnt let me. I thought perhaps she didnt understand what was going to happen so I rather quickly explained it to her, but she didnt budge. And then it happened.
As Ive mentioned before, I have the "ability" to make a very huge mess. Thats either a good thing, or a bad thing, depending on the girl and what she likes. And since my girl doesnt like it... yet... well, I feel bad for her.
But to her credit, she took almost every drop. A bit landed on her lips and chin, but the rest she caught. Did she swallow this time? No. But she also didnt go running to the sink like she used to.
Perhaps us slowing it down - a little bit here, a little bit there - allowed her to get used to it instead of being forced all at once.

But still, Im confused. On one hand, the inner me wants her to do it, but Im not so selfish that Im willing to put that thought above her not actually liking it, so I tell her not to try it and she gets kinda mad and says she wants to, and so I go along with it and usually end up liking the visual and mental image the end result brings.

So Im conflicted.

Any advice on this situation? Any at all would be appreciated.

Til next time...

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Oops
Mood:  flirty

Once again I messed up on a link to a set of pictures. Thanks for telling me. Its just that I move stuff around and I forget to update everything when Im done. Now all three sets are working, and I added more pictures too.

Sorry... again.

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My, how time flies
Mood:  flirty

Ok, so that year and a half went by very quick. Yes, today was the second day in a row - third time ever - that my girl was in my room and on my bed. And this time, as opposed to yesterday, things did happen.
Ill spare you the details, but I will admit that many factors made this probably the best time I ever had sexually.
For one, I wasnt worried about going too soon. When it did happen we just continued on. And secondly, being on my bed instead of the hard living room floor, or the sofa, or a chair, well, it was just very comfortable.
Get this, as hard as this might be to believe, today was the first time in... five years(?)that Ive had sex on a bed. And only the third time ever. I have no explanation. Cant even make one up. Its just filed under "What the Hell?"

Anywho, I dont really have anything else to add to this. Just remember that sex in a comfortable bed feels better than sex on a hard wood floor.

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About time
Mood:  flirty

Ive been going out with my girl for a year and a half now, and in that whole entire time shes been on my bed a total of... one time. That one time would be today. In fact, shes only been in my room twice.
I dont know how or why things worked out that way, I dont usually stop and question things, but I do find it... odd... that thats what happened.
So what did we do on my bed today? Uh huh, wouldnt you like to know? Ok, fine Ill tell you - Ill give you all the juicy details. We... didnt have sex. Yep, the first time I got her on my bed and I didnt take advantage of her. If I didnt know better Id swear I wasnt a guy. Wait... let me check to make sure....

...............................

.....yep, I think that "thing" makes me a guy. Thats what Ive been told anyway.
But yeah, we just layed there for a bit, kissed a bit, played a bit, and that was it. Nothing too bad. And ya know what, it was nice.
Perhaps some day, maybe in another year and a half, Ill ask her to jump on my bed again and maybe Ill get to third base. That would be fun.

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Oops
Mood:  flirty

Well, for a little bit today I thought I deleted my site and thought I was going to have to start over. I was wrong. I just accidentally "hid" it. Not sure how or when I did that, but its back to normal now. If I emailed you... umm... sorry. :)

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Im a Toys R Us kid
Mood:  flirty

I was looking around the internet one sunny day, two weeks ago, and I found a site that sold adult toys and novelties. I went inside and looked around for nothing in particular, and saw products in there that I thought might cure my sensitivity problem. I clicked on various different items and didnt really find any that I liked - until I saw a category called "sleeves."
For those of you that dont know, these are basically condom type things that - obviously - you wear over your... thing... and they have a variety of effects depending on which one you get. Some add texture to the outside to "better please her", some add length, and some do both. Me, being the greedy guy that I am, I went for the one that did both.
My thought was that a few extra inches wouldnt hurt - three inches to be exact - and shed like the texture too, and since I was wearing this over my normal self, it would cut down on the feeling I was getting and thus postpone the inevitable. Again, this was the thought.
I received this toy in the mail a week ago and upon seeing it I got a bit excited at the possibilities that awaited. After taking it out of the package I noticed that it seemed to be a little small for me. It rolls on just like a condom, but Im a bit too... wide... for it and its kinda tight, but I managed to get it on anyway.
After looking at it for awhile I came to two conclusions - one, I think Im now too big. Normally Im not exactly porn star material, but adding three inches to what I do have would make even the biggest of stars a bit envious.
The second conclusion is that theres no way in Hell shed want to go anywhere near this... this... this monster I now possessed. And guess what, I was right.
She came over yesterday and she took one look at it and said "Oh Hell no!" After a bit of pleading, I did manage to get her to at least give it one shot. Unfortunately, we never quite got that far with it.
Its not exactly stable. Or sturdy. Or rigid. So when I try to... umm... go in... it doesnt really want to. It just flops and I have no control over it. A few tries later and we decided to give up - for now - and just do it the old fashioned way.

Which leads me to.....

Even the old fashioned way could use a little extra help once in a while.
Shes about a foot shorter than I am so certain positions are difficult to execute properly. "Properly" meaning without one of us in an awkward position or angle. But, should you be in our situation, and happen to have a step stool handy, it works perfectly.
Have her stand on it and when she bends over, youre both at the correct height for one of the best position ever created. And to think, until very recently, I had never even tried it. Boy was I missing out.

So I guess the moral of the story is that sometimes the best toys are the ones you already have around the house. :)

Til next time...

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So close
Mood:  flirty

For the first time since I became a card carrying member of the "Sexually Active" club, I had my first simultaneous orgasm.

Well, I should have had it.

We were just in a mood today and after work she came inside and we messed around for a little bit and then one thing led to another and the messing around led to sex. You know how that goes, right?
But today was... different. She was a little more sexual, I was a little more relaxed and not so hyper-sensitive, and our physical time together was extended greatly. A plus for both of us.
I was sitting in our computer chair - the same one Im in right now - and she was on top facing me, and she just rode me for... I dont know... a half hour or so.
So theres thirty minutes of that, plus about thirty minutes of her doing "other things" to me and I was about ready to make a huge mess. And it was about this time that she looked into my eyes and told me she was going to also. For the first time ever, thats the one thing I didnt want to hear.
See, if I was going to get there first, then I could have easily pulled out and did what I was going to do, but since she was ready that meant I would have to wait so she wouldnt lose it.
Every movement she was making was bringing me closer and closer and I knew there would be a point where I couldnt hold it anymore and the only thing I could think of was "Please hurry up!" Thankfully, she was able to have one and I had barely enough time to pull out and make my own mess.
It took all the strength and mental toughness I had to sabotage an occurrence that is rare for most people, and will be extremely difficult for us to duplicate again.
So why the rush for her to do it? Why the need for me to hold mine? Why not just go ahead and do it together? Cuz I wasnt wearing a condom. And if I had just put one on, then I could have ended this post after the first sentence.

D'oh!

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Your thought here
Mood:  flirty

Hmm... ok, so Im not getting many comments actually posted to the board, but I am getting a quite a few emailed to me instead. I cant complain cuz a comment is a comment, and I like reading em, but if more of you did it too then Id be a very happy boy.
Ive also gotten a few responses to the "Sex Questions" link on the left. So I see not everyone is shy. Now if I could just convince a certain someone... :)

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